Are you tune in or tune out?

One of the senses that switches on most of the day are our ears. Its probably the first to be awakened. Occassionally, we all got woken up in the middle of the night by loud noises. Listening is second nature but active listening is not. Hear me.

Active Listening is an asset today. Everyone wants to speak, tweet, update status, make noise but alot less people wants to actively listen in. By Active Listening I mean to absorb and empathize. As an experiment, lets do a recap of the conversations you had today. How many conversations can you re-tell, not recall? Your memory is your testament of active listening. We tune out when we stop active listening.

The price to pay for tuning out often can be hefty. First to collaspe are relationships. Marriages break up, partners going seperate ways, board members share heated exchanges. Most of it point towards the inability to listen and solve problems by either parties which became indifference.

Tribes today wants to talk and be actively listened to. Brands need to understand that your tribes want to be engaged in a conversation. Retweets were invented because its a response after active listening. Its a 'we hear you and now listen again' to someone else.

Companies really need to start tuning in. Activate their active listening and deploy resources to engage tribes in a conversation. By that, I mean to empathize where they are coming from and respond professionally. A 'we hear you' response to 18% of your customers could be more important than the same 18% who complains about your pricing.

Active Listening = Absorb + Empathy. It could save your next relationship, professional or personal.

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